Small Group Leader/Facilitator

Small Group Leader/Facilitator: Role Description

Who is the small group facilitator?
A Small Group Leader/Facilitator is a spiritually mature member of the church who facilitates a small group for fellowship, discipleship, and care under the oversight of the elders. He or she serves as a servant-shepherd, helping each member grow in love for Christ and one another while promoting the church’s shepherding vision in a close, relational setting.

What does a Small Group Leader/Facilitator do?
  1. Know the Sheep – Builds relationships with group members and walks alongside them through their joys and struggles.
  2. Feed the Sheep – Facilitates Bible discussion, prayer, and application of God’s Word in a way that encourages spiritual growth.
  3. Lead the Sheep – Models Christlike living and connects members to the life and mission of the church.
  4. Protect the Sheep – Guards the group’s spiritual health by maintaining biblical truth, addressing conflict graciously, and informing elders of serious needs or concerns.
The small group leader/facilitator fosters community, encourages accountability, and helps each member use their gifts to serve others.

Why do they do it?
  • Because Christ calls His people to live in biblical community, “bearing one another’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2).
  • Because personal relationships are essential for spiritual growth, encouragement, and care (Hebrews 10:24-25).
  • Because the elders cannot personally shepherd everyone in a large congregation and rely on small group leaders to help ensure that every member is known, fed, led, and protected.

How do they do it?
  • They plan and facilitate meetings focused on the Word, prayer, and fellowship.  They encourage honest sharing in a safe, Christ-centered environment.
  • They maintain regular contact and meet with each member in person at least once annually (outside of regular group gatherings) to offer encouragement and care.
  • They stay connected with members who are facing challenges and visit members in the hospital or crises when necessary.
  • They pray weekly for their flock, dependent on the Holy Spirit.
  • They attend Covenant’s bi-monthly Shepherding Trainings to meet with their Team Leader for prayer, training, and reporting, and they act with humility under the direction of the elders.
  • They actively communicate with the elders about important changes to their group, and they keep their online group roster updated.

Resources for Small Group Leaders

Curriculum options can be found in the next section.

Using Your Group Roster

Learn how to update your online roster and find contact information.

Planning Meetings

Learn how to schedule and structure meetings.

Leading Discussions

Learn how to facilitate healthy, productive group discussions.

Prayer Tips

Learn how your group can approach prayer biblically and effectively.

Sharing Group Responsbilities

Learn how to split up group responsibilities among members.

Troubleshooting

Learn how to handle challenges that may come up in your group.

Providing Care to Your
Group Members

Learn the goals, principles, and best practices for providing care in a Small Group setting.

Five Touches of a
Small Group Leader

Learn simple ways to connect with your group members, leading to deeper relationships.

Rhythm of Discipleship

Learn how to encourage your sheep to live out the Rhythm of Discipleship and Worship, Grow, Serve, and Go.

Domestic Abuse Policy

Learn the steps to address domestic abuse, as well as the resources available to support both your sheep and you as the shepherd.

5As Training for Shepherds

Learn how to approach the serious issues of the 5As (Abuse, Adultary, Abandonment, Addiction, Abnormal behavior). 

Member Care Flowchart

Learn the best way to handle health concerns and other situations that may arise in your sheep's lives. 

The Small Group Life Cycle

Learn how to evaluate where your group is in the life cycle and plan for the next steps.

Developing Future Shepherds

Learn how to develop and deploy new shepherds from your group.

When to Multiply Your Group

Learn how to evaluate your group and determine if it is ready to multiply.

A Shepherd's Walk with Christ

Learn how to lead will by being a student of both the Lord and your people.

Resources at Covenant

Find the latest information about resources available through Covenant, including counseling referrals and the Mercy Ministry.

Outside Resources

Find a list of organizations available in Collier County to support a wide variety
of needs and concerns.

Curriculum Options for Small Groups

Option 1 (Preferred): Sermon Notes

Follow along with Sunday's preaching in your group's discussion.

Discussion questions are provided each week in the bulletin, in the sermon notes, and in the Covenant Family News email (click here to subscribe). No additional materials are needed.

Option 2: Studies on a Specific Book of the Bible

Knowing the Bible

A series of short, accessible guides on individual books of the Bible that combine explanation, reflection questions, and devotional application.

Lamplighters

A series of Bible studies with structured questions that encoruage personal discovery, designed for small groups.

Reformed Expository
Bible Studies

Companions to the Reformed Expository Commentary series, providing discussion questions and devotionals for each passage 

The Gospel-Centered
Life in the Bible

Bible studies that trace how each book of Scripture points to Christ, helping groups see the gospel woven throughout the whole of God's Word 

Flourish Bible Studies

A women's Bible study series from Crossway exploring individual books of the Bible, with questions for personal reflection and group discussion.

Seeing Jesus in the
Old Testament

A series by Nancy Guthrie that guides groups through key Old Testament books, showing how each foreshadows and points to the person and work of Christ.

Option 3: Topical Series/Books

Many of the following books can be purchased alongside a study guide designed for small groups.

Instruments in the
Redeemer's Hands

Paul Tripp's foundational book on how God uses ordinary believers who are themselves in need of change to minister gospel transformation to one another in everyday life.

Five Lies of Our
Anti-Christian Age

Rosaria Butterfield uses Scripture to confront five widespread cultural lies about sexuality, gender, and womanhood, calling the church back to the beauty of biblical truth.

Gentle and Lowly

Dane Ortlund draws on Scripture and the Puritans to explore Christ's tender heart toward sinners and sufferers. Available as the book alone or as a book and study guide set.

Healthy Church
Study Guides

A Crossway series of short, practical guides on core aspects of church life — including discipleship, prayer, evangelism, and biblical theology — designed for group study.

Parenting First Aid

Marty Machowski offers gospel-centered encouragement for weary parents, drawing on Scripture and real testimonies to help moms and dads trust God in the midst of parenting challenges.

The Meaning of Marriage

Tim and Kathy Keller present a vision of Christian marriage rooted in the gospel, exploring how the covenant of marriage reflects Christ's relationship with the church.

Confronting Jesus

Rebecca McLaughlin explores the four Gospels through nine encounters with Jesus, helping readers, including skeptics, meet the real Jesus of Scripture. Includes a companion study guide.

Knowing God's Truth

Jon Nielson's accessible introduction to systematic theology, covering 12 core categories—Scripture, sin, salvation, church, and more—with built-in prompts for prayer and application.

Ligonier Teaching Series

A wide library of video teaching series from Ligonier Ministries covering theology, church history, and Christian living—many with companion study guides for group use.
Approved curriculums last updated June 2026
We are His people, the sheep of His pasture.
– Psalm 100:3